Unbecoming by Javis De La Haye is a poignant and introspective coming of age memoir that delves into the complex journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and transformation. The narrative follows Javier, a young boy who faces the turbulent trials of adolescence compounded by family struggles, including his mother's battle with cancer and his own mental health challenges. The story captures Javier's evolution from a timid, misunderstood child into a resilient individual who confronts his identity, grief, and the societal pressures around him. The memoir is deeply reflective, offering a raw and unfiltered glimpse into the struggles of growing up, dealing with addiction, and ultimately, finding one's true self amidst chaos and pain.